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What is a Proposal Planner?

A proposal planner is similar to a wedding planner. We are experts in the field at creating the perfect moment, event, and ruse to make your partner light up like never before. We take the stress from you and plan every little detail that you would otherwise have to figure out alone. Let us do the work! Let yourself be the hero who proposes.

FAQ For Proposal Planners


How much should I plan to spend on my proposal?

This is completely up to you and it depends on personal budget. We have helped and organized proposals ranging from $1,500 - $50,000. I would say the average spend for a proposal is $5000.

Don't forget because of our partnerships with vendors we are able to get you discounts that you wouldn't be able to get on your own!

Does a proposal HAVE to be romantic...

because I am not romantic?

You know your partner better than anyone. What would they like for their special day? Remember this is about them and how much you love them. If you are worried about coming up with a special idea, romantic or not, we at Take My Hand are here to help you every step of the way. Maybe your parter enjoys adventure, or is goofy, maybe they are super nerdy and geeky. Not every proposal has to be "romantic."


Do you help create the proposal speech? I have

no idea what to say.

Of course we do! We specialize in not only helping to create the engagement proposal but also the perfect proposal speech that will knock her off her feet.  Remember every part of this is important even down to the words.


Where can you plan proposals? For example, I was thinking of proposing in Paris...

Our main offices are in Nashville, Atlanta, and Philadelphia, however we pride ourselves in planning proposals all over the US and internationally. Through extensive research we make sure to pick the highest quality vendors with great reviews to make sure your day is perfect!

What knee should I propose on?

Traditionally, when you decide to propose, your left knee should be on the ground, while the right should be up. Meanwhile, the ring box should be in your left hand and must be opened with your right hand.​ We personally think whatever makes you feel comfortable (especially if you are left handed you may want to switch your knees up)

Why should I hire a proposal planner when I could do it myself?

You're right! You might be able to do it yourself but we have access to all the best quality vendors at the tips of our fingers to make your day the most well thought out and perfect day that will be talked about for years to come. With our help and expertise not only will your partner be amazed but they will wonder how you could have ever come up with these ideas yourself!

How Long in Advance do I Need to Book?

Great Question! The normal proposal is normally booked 1-3 months in advance. There  are ways for us to make this happen for you in a shorter amount of time "last second proposal options"depending on the idea just give us a call or email us!

How exactly do you "customize" proposals?

It all starts with our detailed questionnaire that dives into your personalities, memories, hobbies, favorite things, and more. We then comb through all of these details to form what we believe would be the best proposal idea that would make your partner go crazy. And then we give you not one but two of these ideas for you to choose from all staying within your budget. We then give you a detailed report on how to make this day come true. (If you upgrade to VIP or Luxury we will then take care of all the planning, reservations, and nitty gritty stuff for you)

Are you guys able to help with the engagement ring as well? I don't know what to get her.

Yes of course! Picking out the perfect engagement ring can be super stressful (almost as stressful as planning the proposal). We partner with jewelers to not only help choose the perfect ring but also give you exclusive discounts you can only get through us!

What will My Girlfriend say about out how
I got this proposal done?

Every girl wants that perfect proposal just as much as they want the perfect wedding. Trust me she will fall in love with you all over again once she sees how magical this proposal is. And if you really don't want her to find out we can make it exclusive just for you 🙂 (but the question is will she believe you did it all yourself)

Is the marriage proposal even important?

Let's put it this way. Next to the wedding this might be the most important day of your life. This is not an occasion you want to take lightly! Take a look at our various proposal packages and engagement ideas and you will see just how creative we can get!

Can you do proposals based on specific holidays or seasons?

Anything you can dream of we can make a reality! Fall proposals, beautiful winter wonderland proposals, summer beach proposals,  Christmas proposals, fourth of July proposals, Valentine proposals and more!


What if I want to capture the moment,

can I get proposal pictures done? ​

From proposal photographer to proposal musician,  engagement florists, rose petals, engagement ring ideas, videographers, and more, our list is limitless of what we can provide!

How do I pay for your services?

To secure your custom proposal booking, we do require a 25% deposit which is non-refundable. The remaining amount of the package is required 21 days in advance of your event.

What can you guys do for me?

The services we offer are in our packages section of the website. However to briefly discuss we can go as small as building the entire proposal for you from beginning to finish so that you can go make everything happen yourself, or we can build it all plus coordinate the whole event to make sure all reservations, transportation services, travel, food, florists, music, photographers, engagement ring, and more are completely covered.​

I already bought the ring why would I go spend a bunch on the proposal as well?

What's more important to you, the present or the experience and the excitement getting to that present. If you were to just pop out the ring, yea that's special but imagine this super romantic evening with memorable things happening throughout the day that will never be forgotten and then you pull this beautiful ring. BAM that moment will become the best moment of their life!

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